Lullabies For Parents: Must-Have Music for all Parents – Album Giveaway


I say I’m a gentle-ish parent, the emphasis being on the ish because I am not totally as wholesome and calm and balanced as I would like, so the term gentle when it comes to parenting I feel needs an “ish.” (In case you spot me loosing my rag!).

I particularly struggle with long car journeys (I don’t even drive) but sitting in the back squashed between two whining kids isn’t how I’d pictured family holidays.

But I’ve found a solution, better than counting to 10, is to play calming music in the form of Lullabies For Parents!

The person behind this genius idea of an album is singer-song-writer Ric Neale.

And Ric has Kindly offered to giveaway one of his albums to my readers (see below how to enter).

I chatted to Ric about Lullabies for Parents and the story behind it…

When and why did you create the album?

I started writing the record about a year an a half ago, tentatively at first because I didn’t know whether it would work to be honest.
At that point I had a three-year-old and a one-year-old and was finding being a parent really challenging. I noticed that there wasn’t any music about what we were going through; there are songs about having kids but they are usually incredibly positive in a way that is unrealistic.
I wanted to tell the truth (or at least my truth), that it’s amazing having kids, but it is very difficult; constantly questioning your decisions, your identity and comparing yourself with other parents, and the inevitable lack of sleep or time to look after yourself can start to turn your head to mush.

The writing process wasn’t easy, but I’m really proud of the songs and the way they balance my total love for the kids with some realism about the day to day struggles.

What do you hope other parents will get from it?
There is so much nonsense spoken about parenthood and all we ever see on social media or on TV are perfect parents which was enough to make me feel like I was just doing it wrong. Other parents I spoke to at toddler groups and stuff were having just as tough a time as we were so I figured that a lot of people must feel the same way.
My hope is that when people listen to this record that they’ll feel less alone.
What are your plans for the future?
I gig regularly all over the country, and I’m even off to play in South Korea soon so these songs are being played regularly. The main thing with this album is to get it to the right people, me and some other creatives have just begun the process of turning the record into a theatre show with dialogue and projections, which I’m really excited about.
We hope to perform it at theatres in between the school runs so parents can access it, and even do shows where we provide a creche.
I’m aiming at an audience that isn’t really catered for which is great because I’ve made something new, but difficult because there are not any obvious avenues to get the record to the people who will get the most from it. I have been blown away by the positive comments from parents who have heard it though, and I love the fact that people have started giving Lullabies For Parents as a gift to new parents.


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They say it takes a village to raise a child

But I’m the village idiot

And I’ve been making up the numbers here with you since I joined


Be it the fruit of your loins or the apple of your eye that you’ve chose to cradle high

On the branches of your growing family tree


When the house is quiet and you creep downstairs

And you’re trying to remember who you were


If your heart hurts from loving

Or you so tired you feel nothing

We deserve some nursery rhymes too


So these lullabies are for you

Asleep In The Car

Filling the boot up with memories

Cramming in more stuff than I can fit in

Feeling the pressure and running on fumes I don’t have


But we’ve finished the goodbyes and tantrums

Then there’s last minute checks and delays

But right now my favourite escape route is only a key turn away


When you’re asleep in the car

I’ll drive us around

We needn’t go far

I’ll cover the ground

You’re safe where you are

You’re tucked up and dreaming, 

you’re sleeping in the car


Winding through worlds between windmills

I feel them blowing the outside away

And I will take every turn that I’m told till were there


And I make it to our destination

I would keep going all night if I could

Cos I know the briefest of time in control of our world feel so good.


When you’re asleep in the car

I’ll drive us around

We needn’t go far

I’ll cover the ground

You’re safe where you are

You’re tucked up and dreaming, 

You’re sleeping in the car


Like a cloud that’s all tied up with string

This bow brakes so gently your cradle won’t swing

I’ll help you count sheep but you’re counting on me

And you’ll never know


You’re asleep in the car

Enjoying the view

I know where you are

I know what to do

I’ll drive us forever

And it’s only me, who isn’t sleeping in the car

Grown Up Now


Looking back

What did we do with all the time we had

Did we just waste it all on stuff that fades away


Now that’s all gone

We’ve given up all that to get things done

But even then there’s not enough hours in the day


I can see, the heady heights I used to wanna

try to reach

But here and now with you…


I’m gonna stay home

No nights out for me I’m gonna say no

The invites been received and been turned down

I’m gonna have to be the grown up now


Now and then

A chance to hang out with some grown ups again

But we just talk about the kids we left at home

With a baby sitter waiting by the phone


I’ll concede, theres things that one day soon we wannna

Try to see

But here and now with you




I’m gonna take out the bins on Tuesday night

I’m gonna put in the wash and get it dry

I’m gonna read the same story every time

I’m gonna sing the usual lullabies

I’m saying no when it’s got too late

I’m saying yes to staying home for the night





What are you doing to me

Look at the state I’m in

You’re holding me well and truly

Under your spell now I’m overwhelmed by everything


I’m breaking down

Is this how I’m supposed to feel

I’m welling up

At Christmas adverts on TV

I’m lost when you’re lost in laughter

Afraid that we’ll find disaster




Running out

Of energy to keep control

Why do I hold it in?

What am I afraid to show?

Telling myself I’m stronger

Knowing deep down I’m wrong




Once upon a time in the palace of my mind

I really knew my way around

A throne and a wand all the variables gone

Just me and the peace that I’d found

Then something changed and my heart got rearranged

Now I’ve fallen so far

But I can’t keep my feet on the ground


Everything was clear

Now I’m stuck on the verge of tears



You’re Probably Doing Fine


You’re probably doing fine

These are words I’d really like to hear

Stop second-guessing every second guess just take a breath

And keep on going


You’re probably A OK

When they’re grown up you’ll probably look back and you’ll laugh about this

You’ll hold your temper bite you’re lip and then count back to ten

And keep on going

You’re doing fine


I can’t compare myself to all those dough-eyed mums on Facebook

They’re probably every bit as lost

I’m doing all I can to balance magic and logistics

It isn’t much but it is everything I’ve got


You’re probably doing fine

The fact you ask yourself the question makes you something special

When you can’t take their dreams and make them true, you’ll muddle through

And keep on going


These cut out picture perfect parents I just can’t contend with

The kind of people I’m just not

I’m doing all I can to balance magic and logistics

It isn’t much but it is everything I’ve got



How can I hold them, without holding them back

How can I stand up for them, without standing in their path

What can I do to keep the safe but not afraid

push them without pushing them away…..



Another day another night I’ve somehow bluffed my way through

Pretending everything is fine

I’m doing all I can to balance magic and logistics

It’s not enough but it is everything I’m trying to give you everything I’ve got


You’re probably doing fine.

Epilogue (What Have We Learned?)


So what have we learned?

Absolutely nothing

What do we want?

A little bit of peace cos this is hard


As hard as ice and stone

As hard as getting up and keeping going


But loving you is easy


Like skimming stones across a frozen lake

It’s as easy as pie or a piece of cake

Loving you is protest against underhanded greedy hearted plans and wars and cheating

Help me believe that a soul that pure can take a beating



So what have we learned?

Absolutely nothing cos we’ve always known


How to open up my heart into a home

How to dry up tears

How to chase away fears

How to turn my voice into a whisper that is soft and sweet

And move it up and down

And make some lullabies

So close your eyes and sleep


The perfect gift for new Parents

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